Dinner and a movie only works so many times before it feels routine. Whether you’re just getting to know someone or keeping a long-term romance fresh and fun, the best way to liven up your next date is to take it outside.
There are other benefits to getting outdoors with your honey as well: Adventure activities like climbing, snowshoeing, and hiking can help build trust and boost your problem-solving aptitude as a couple. And don’t even get us started on the aww-worthy photo ops. And besides, venturing beyond the ordinary will create memories you can talk about on dozens of dinner dates to come. Here are eight ideas to get you started.
1. Go Ice Skating
There’s a reason this is a Valentine’s classic. And in winter, many cities at high altitudes and/or northern latitudes set up outdoor rinks all season long. And if you live somewhere really cold? Try pond skating for next-level scenery and backcountry quiet.
Do it right:
- Pack a hat, scarf, gloves, and plenty of warm layers.
- Bring hot cocoa or tea in an insulated bottle.
- Make sure any frozen ponds are vetted for safety by local authorities or landowners before you step foot on the ice.
2. Pick Your Own Fruit
Berries in the summer and apples in the fall are widespread options, and you’ll likely find regional fruit as well. Just search for “pick your own” farms and orchards nearby. Pack a sun hat or warm coat depending on the season. And after? Use your spoils to bake a pie and serve it by candlelight.
Do it right:
- If it’s a long drive, turn it into a day trip. Look for a trail along the way.
- Good shoes are a must; farm terrain can be uneven and sometimes muddy.
3. Go Snowshoeing or Cross-Country Skiing
This is the way to go for a quiet, scenic winter outing. Plus, it’s a bonus if you’re both trying something new. Rentals are affordable and readily available at Nordic centers.
Do it right:
- Let the slower party ski or snowshoe first. They should set the pace.
- Bring an insulated bottle of hot tea or cocoa, cookies, chocolate, and other high-fat, high-carb snacks, which help keep the body warm in cold temps.
- Go easy. This is a date, not a sufferfest. Together with your partner, pick out a short loop with minimal vertical gain.
4. Go Bouldering
Unlike roped climbing, which requires technical skills and gear, first-time bouldering is easy to manage on your own. Learn the basics of bouldering, rent a few crash pads from your local bouldering gym or gear shop, and head to the nearest bouldering zone for carefree fun in an outdoor setting.
Do it right:
- Don’t get hung up on any one route unless both parties are really excited about it. This is no time for frustration.
- Don’t offer “beta” (hold-finding or technique advice) unless your partner asks you first.
- Pack some surprises, like fancy snacks and cold drinks.